On the other side you ladies are only seen one side of the equation, your side! Why do I like older men? He died last year. I could stand it 3 nights a week, but she is a full time student and holds down a job at night.
In life you have to take chances or you'll miss out on a lot!! You left out the vital one I was looking for.. The attraction is his hustle and drive. You can never judge from a distance. I don't need him financially. I married someone 15 years younger than me.
He died last year. No the question is, if I can afford it, why I cannot have another younger women in my life and share my life openly and in agreement between the parties involve? He got sacked from his job.
Guys will tell you anything you want to hear and screw over you. I am so much looking forward to talking to her in person. We just hang out and have fun and go out on dates and talk about a bunch of random things, stories from the past ect. The article is so helpful. I wanted to have children. I'm 16 and I only date older guys.
Let him catch up with a buddy over a beer while you go and spend his money. They are still dealing with their emotions. He cares for me as a dad. Find out what both of you need from a relationship. In my society, divorced women doesn't have a variety of options; like me.
Not all older men, but some have a loss of muscle tone, health issues, and sexual stamina problems. That's very ignorant of you to assume he's just using her. We're going to a concert in a few weeks and my friend with benefits is also going so I asked him if he would meet up with us and be all over me and act like were together so that my friend would get the idea that I wasn't interested. Especially, if you are a female in your twenties and he is in his thirties. We will decide together within about ten days how to move matters forward.
However, this article is about younger women falling in love with older men. I feel like I need to say something since my experiences are rather far different than anyone here. I love him for who he is.
His emotional needs will differ from yours simply because he is in a different stage of life. A man in his 40's and possibly up to the age of 55-60 is still active and can remain verile if he has remained in relatively good health. My values and principles matter more to me than my own emotions so I left. Dating an older guy could be real exciting.
Can you imagine the couples who have an age gap of 20 or more years. Consider the age difference—how old are you and how old are they? Is it bad for a 14 year old girl to date a 24 year old guy? Also they know exactly what to say at exactly the right time. In their early twenties, young girls are still trying to come to terms with their identity.
Wow i just wanted to scream when i was reading all the disses this person was saying about older men. I earned my keep since I was 18. Which is why he is still married and you are his mistress.
He's still plenty young enough to have children, he has a good job, and he's never been married. He may not have the strength or energy to travel the world with a women, go out dancing. I will be there to help him to the bathroom and keep him clean because i love like that. I just think I got lucky, and found the perfect woman for me.
I'm 54, she 32. I was once fooled and married a man I never knew before because this is how things are here but I had a say in this marriage Thank God. If anything, you as the female would enjoy so many benefits from dating or being married to someone that much older as opposed to being 30 yrs.
It's much more a challenge for the woman than people think but I believe worth it, for me at least. If it's for his money you should reevaluate your priorities. What do you think? I love men for who they are but do acknowledge I simply feel more attracted to older men.